Dearest Elahe jan, we thought after the loss of our dearest Vaji, life would be kind and we never ever experience the hollowness of a tragic loss of another young, wonderful and stunning loved one...alas we are so wrong, and very unprepared to deal with your tragedy. Murakami is so right here: "No truth can cure the sorrow we feel from losing a loved one. No truth, no sincerity, no strength, no kindness can cure that sorrow. All we can do is see it through to the end and learn something from it, but what we learn will be no help in facing the next sorrow that comes to us without warning." by Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood (Fadat sham, Lots of love & many kisses khale Marzi)